Neve’s day at the office

 

2016-08-25_05-59-09Neve accepted with great patience that she would have to wait until she was seven before she could spend the day with Dad at the office. That’s the age Lola was when she came.

Having acheived that grand age, her patience dwindled and she has been a relentless nag. Fair enough.

Finally, her great day came — on the hottest day of the year so far with temperatures over 30 in London. Walked to the station, trained to KingsX. Stopped to pick up some goodies for the magic table — owed for my birthday — at the station. Then to the office, where she got her own name badge printed (and later reprinted, after she noticed they’d wrongly spelt her name as “Nave”).

2016-08-25_04-32-20Chris was working from home, so Neve sat at his desk, doing her puzzles, a bit of reading, a bit of writing on the walls… I got on with work. We went to the cafe for elevenses, and then out to Balfour for lunch where Neve chose the lasagne – just the job for such a hot day. She did mention, in fact, how it warmed up her insides!

Off then to find a magazine for her to look at and play with that afternoon before heading back to the office for a couple of hours.  Neve had a bit less patience for those two hours — letting her play games on my desktop helped a bit. Quite a contrast to when Lola came — she was so bound up in her Harry Potter book, she barely noticed the office!

serinissima, or not

Spent some good time with Lola and Neve while in via delle venti. Read them macbeth as bedtime story. Kept alive the legend of the Barabek, who still lives in the dark space above the cantina stairs. Neve and I would put a banana at the top of the stairs so he’d eat that in preference to any passing humans. I’d sometimes come down the stairs, pretending to be the Barabek and they’d have fun being scared.

Went on early-morning bike ride with Lola — one thing which she’d been desperate to get in. We rode up to Camalo’ and had a brioch at the bar.

And then we made the birthday cake for Mr Monkey, and later the cake for Dedi. But still I felt like I was often short-tempered and fobbing them off because I was working on some DIY, or checking email or whatever.

It’s all so gosh-darned tricky. 😮

easter in the veneto, 2016

Neve on the planeTravelled evening of Maundy Thursday: taxi, train, plane — all straightforward and hitch-free. Dedi met us at Treviso. Had some dinner when we got to Nonna’s — minestrone and some meats; then to bed pretty sharpish.

Friday seeing some of the family. The girls with StefiPerhaps we went to IperLando, or maybe that was Saturday. Stefi, Bruna, Renzo, Selena, Alvise, Morena, Assunta, Giada, Marco, Claudio…  I went down to Tasca and bought some sockets to replace some of Cesarina’s, which had blown (some of them over ten years ago!). Fitted those.

Saturday, the girls helped Nonna and Bruna make pasta and put the pasticcio together. Lola particularly good with the mixing and then the putting through the machine. Saw Francesca, Elena, Marina…

Isa and a bushSunday, of course, the big Easter do. 13 at the table for lunch – no Selena or Alvise though, as Selana was worried by the fact that Morena has shingles (though she’s had chicknpox, so no actual risk). Selena is significantly more risk-averse now she is pregnant. Even when it’s demonstrable that there is no risk.

Monday — pasquetta — went with Selena and Alvise and Bruna and Renzo to a bonkers place in the montello, “Pioppi”,  which would give UK health and safety fans a series of major heart attacks.  Adventure playground run out the back of a big trattoria; huge great “homemade” slides, roller-coaster things, and various ingenious but potentially lethal Heath-Robinsonesque divertimenti.

Tues Isa feeling a bit wobbly – albeit not sure if this was an illness or just an adjustment…  Weds, though, saw high fever and a day in bed; same for much of Thursday.

At Jesolo

Weds Dedi took the girls and me to Jeselo (Lola and Neve’s vote). They had a lovely time paddling and collecting shells and rolling around in the fine sand. Beach was pretty much deserted; some tractors working on the sand; dog walkers; a couple of groups of teens playing beach games…

It’s a great drive out to Jesolo – Dedi takes the old route, following the Sile out to portegrandi. Including that series of old “named” houses that, Dedi was saying, were commissioned by Mussolini.

Thurs, Fri. Some short bike rides; got skirting board cut (by Stefano) and stuck it up where missing in the kitchen. Must have gone to Tasca to get glue the day before… (Unfortunately, this was not the “no-more-nails” type I had assumed it would be, but a smelly impact adhesive. Still, seemed to do the job.)

Saturday, Isa up and about. We went into Treviso after lunch. Dedi dropped us off at Via Montello and we hung around outside the wall a bit, watching the ducks and rabbits. Then a stroll through town, window-shopping and chilling. Stopped at a bar  by the fish market and had a spritz.

GeocachingSun we went out on the bikes with Giada, geocaching – couldn’t find the one on the pista cyclabile, but found the one off Via Croce. Stopped off at Dedi’s gelateria on the way back where the kids tasted approximately every icecream flavour available.

Hangin out in the CannaregioMonday we went to Venice. Walked around cannaregio area (misericorda, insert viewranger link), art shop with family where wife from somerset, lunch near there but not so good, despite recommendation by said artists; then walk up to madonna dell’orto and caught vaporetto round island to san pietro del campostello, an amazingly wastelandy part of Venice. See the viewranger route here.

San Pietro di CastelloTues went into Treviso, saw Susi. Isa’s hair, girls extensions. Bus home, Bruna interception at Ponzano, buy cake tin, got home, had dins. Then Lola and Neve made bday cake for Dedi.

Montello, woodsWeds morning, I managed to get out for first (and last!) early morning bike ride. Did about 20k in foggy drizzle, across b-roads and dirt tracks up to the Montello and up a real hill through the woods before returning via a slightly circular route. Utterly fantastic: beautiful countryside, pheasants wandering across the roads, Vittoriairrigation canals disappearing into the mist, ancient stone-built houses in the middle of nowhere (can I buy one for 20k euros and do it up? can I? can I? [No – Ed]). One year (next year?) we’re going to do huge bike rides every day, and Lola will be speeding around…

CastelfrancoWeds also Dedi’s bday, doing icing, lunch, Castelfranco, Neve flagging complaining of tummyache, high fever by time home. Had been constipated a few days; and patatina still burny despite antibiotics… So she and Isa stayed at home while Lola and I and the rest of the family went out for pizza in Paderno. All back to Nonna’s house for coffee and the cake Lola and Neve had made. This greeted with great enthusiasm by all.

Thurs, Neve still with high temp. In bed much of day. Isa went to supermarket with Nonna, and later to sign a document with the lawyer, finalising some of the division. Earlier in the holiday, we’d looked at the papers listing how the division was made.

Fri and Neve’s temperature is the on way down. Isa and I went to Treviso after lunch–Isa driving Dedi’s car. We wandered around window shopping; went to Pietrobon but their stock not what is used to be. Isa bought two pairs of jeans at Sisley, then we stopped at the optician and caught up with Grazia, and booked an appt for Lola the following day for eye test.Outside the walls of Castelfranco

Thus, Saturday saw us heading to Treviso to give Lola’s eyes a polish. Stefi gave us a lift in her tiny little car. While Lola was being tortured with little letters, we went out for a drink and snack at a local bar. Then back to pick Lola and Isa up, and goodbye to Grazia and out for another quick pit stop in a lovely little bar/pasticceria for a coffee and snack. I had a black croissant — make with ‘carbone vegetale’. Very nice.

Finally, we are over the various illnesses and have acclimatised, destressed and are beginning to relax — ready to begin our holiday only… drat — tomorrow is our last day!

spedicolata – Renzo’s word to describe Selena’s driving… Actually, I think I misheard, he must have said spericolata (daredevil)

Was that summer?

Utility room. Dad and Mum for two weeks helping. Then the Italians (after a spot of boiling), including Selena and Alvise. Plus some simultaneous Edmonds. Shakespeare and Renzo’s emergency not-heart-attack. And now out the other side and staring at September and school and an autumny feel. Isa had a great day today with the kids:cycling (own bikes) down to town along the river. Falafels and ice cream and chat. Then pasta and a film (Disney – hunchback of notre dame). Now bed. Lola v grown up and lovely; Neve very childlike and lovely. Neve willful and in her own world; Lola can sulk and whinge. But mostly lovely and good and helpful and caring and very loving. What incredible children.

partaaaay

It’s one am and there are nine children in a tent at the bottom of our garden. Lola, Neve,  Teo, Louis, Natalie, Isla, Tilly, Rosie, Eleanor.  They watched The Gods Must be Crazy in the garden. Barbie first. Then to bed in the tent.  They’re still chatting away now. Laughing; torching; telling horror stories and jokes. We’re in our bed, listening to them through the window. Going to watch a Grimm now — see you after. Or not.

lola is nine

And we’re having a heatwave much like the one when she was born. Party on Saturday — sleepover in tent in garden with outdoor cinema. Neve is off to Hunstanton with the school (KS1) today; it’s a perfect, cloud-free day and could get up to 30 degrees. Lola got v upset that Neve’s packed lunch was much better (had jelly and pretzels) than the one she had the other day to take on her West Stow (Anglo-Saxon village) trip. Funny (not necessarily in the sense of hilarity) how much these little things mean at that age. I certainly have a reasonably tangible memory of the “sibling got this but I didn’t” feeling. And it’s not softened by the thought of, eg, a big birthday party next day.

Neve and Lola both very lovely and loving. Prone to niggle and argue, often with Neve lashing out. Both capable of teasing and winding each other up; but also spend a great deal of time playing together, making up stories with their pets and cuddlies. Lola continues to have a passion for cataloguing, and is often filling notebooks with details (name, age, DOB, favourite cake, isRoyalty?) of her pets/cuddlies/

Neve still very cuddly. Still says “Pemember, whole-tire, aminal, …”

Lola gets up early in the morning and is often already dressed and in the sitting room when I get down at 6am.