the dreaded lurgy

We are all struck down with it — it hit Lola on Tuesday, Isa by
Thursday and me on Friday. Lola and I have both hit forty degrees (104F)
of fever; Isa tends to measure hers less often but has seen 38.5. Aches,
coughs, and Isa had an awful night of ‘acid snot’ during which she was
obliged to prop herself up at an angle of about 39 degrees all night
just in order to limit the awful pain of breathing.

Whether or not Little Eric (who actually is now known as Neve, given
that we know she is a girl) also has it . . .

Oh, had I not mentioned here that Isa is pregnant again!? 23 weeks: due
in May. I did wonder about starting her own blog but then thought, no —
they’re going to have to learn to share! 🙂 Ah, how easily we fall
into the cliches of parenting; especially when they pander to our own
inate laziness.

Anyway, what’s Lola doing and saying at the moment?, I hear you ask.
Well, she’s well into her puzzles — I must have done the dolls house
one ten times in the last three days, and Isa the same. “Come on! Do the
puzzles with me!” “Read me a book, Mummy!”

“What are we doing now?”

“Well, we’re going to have some dinner.”

“Oh, and then?”

“Maybe we’ll play a game.”

“Oh — and then?”

[repeat ad nauseum]

verbosity

“Are you want some more Daddy?”
“No: I not *like* it!” (Said in an informational tone.)
“Look at my bellik!”
“Just one more! Go on, Daddy”
“What are the work people saying?”
“The wolf is coming!”

I’m so sorry I’m not blogging at the moment, because Lola is such good
fun and so loving and happy these days. Interested in everything,
sensible and accepting of ‘reality’ when it intervens. She runs around the house singing and jumping, “De dooo, de deee, de dummm.” We spend a lot of time singing nursery rhymes.

tree-spotting

Have finally decided that the trees that line the West side of Stroud
Green Road are Narrow-Leafed Ashes. They are really lovely looking
trees, with cloads of fine leaves that look fantastic with the sun
behind them.

I also detected quite a lot of hazel around the old railway bridge at
the top of Crouch Hill and some kind of Willow that has been trimmed
into a hedge down near Brambledown Mansions.

Yes, I’ve caught the tree-spotter bug again. It all started last weekend
when we arrived down in Somerset for a short visit: one innocent, “I
wonder what tree that is” lead to another and another…

We had a wonderful few days down there. Lola was tearing round the whole
time full of excited energy, ready to go and see the inciminchin or down
to the seaside and play in the sandpit or to go up the stairs and no,
Daddy wait there and Lola go down Uno Due Tre Cinque Sei and have lunch
and no, Lola not want fish pie, no and then put shoes on and go seaside,
yes, yes Daddy?

She’s such a lovely bundle of positive, happy, intelligent, chatty fun.

Les Adorables

“What happened to Muzzy, Daddy?” “What’s this doing here, Maddy?”

“Is it pasta time, Mummy?” “Lola go to parco, Dummy?”

“Is Rosie coming?” “It’s broken — I’ll put it back on.”

“Oh: it’s going beep and now it’s ready!”

Lola, although certainly developing a streak of wilfulness and the
tendancy to begin any decision-making process by snapping, “No” and
turning her head fully to the left-stop and giving a good pout, seems to
have been in a perpetual good mood for the last six months.

She chatters, plays, sings, cuddles from morning till night. She does
lovely little intricate drawings. And she auto-magically potty-trained
herself.

cuddles

“Lola read a book to monkey!” is what is being cried in a loop from the
bedroom at the moment. Now and then it changes to “Pee-pee, mama!” or
“mummy cuddles!”. Lola so enjoys her night-time cuddles with Mummy that
it’s been getting really hard to put her down since we’ve been back from
Italy. The big soppy nana could cuddle all night long.

questions

Lola came into the kitchen this evening and asked me where the other
part of $some_toy was. I can’t recall her ever asking me where something
is before.

She is in such a perpetually good mood these days (although a touch of
croup has woken her and us the last few nights). And so very, very
chatty and singy (“See saw, margey door, jonny av noo marser”).

You’ve never seen anyone enjoy their time like Lola did in Italy this
last trip (we got back a week ago). I’ll try to find the time to
elucidate when it’s not bedtime…

‘Night

Snow!

Not untypical: a week after Spring begins, with trees budding
enthusiastically and birds twittering excitedly, and it snows. Big,
thick, sticky snowdrops which have already deposited an inch or more on
the ground and on the upper parts of all the trees’ branches. (Pretty
effect, that).

“Raining, it’s pouring,” as Lola puts it. An awful lot of Lola’s output
is musically oriented. Dunno where that comes from.

Lola has come on a bit since my last post. (Not a surprise given the
long expanse of silence since then: what a bad biographer.) She’s
talking a lot: just now, she managed to tell me the story of how monkey
got his foot wet and dirty in a puddle on the way back from the
library.

We spent Christmas in Somerset and visited again for Easter. Lola got
very excited about going at Easter — it was great to see evidence of
the fixing of all those neural pathways. You could tell her we were
going down to see i nonnie (or Grandma and Grandpa) and she’d be off,
talking excitedly about the beach, Lucy, the Choo-choos…

Easter was tinged with sadness, as we sad good bye to Lucy for the last
time: the day after we left, Mum and Dad took her to the Blue Cross
centre where she’ll wait for a new owner who can offer the kind of home
she needs. I guess Lola isn’t going to take it in until she next visits,
at which point the memory may have faded a little, anyway. Mum had a
really hard time, though, and was very upset. It’s not often I wish I
were a farmer but this is one occasion where I’d happily have been one
so that we could have taken on Lucy.

Anyway, must get on with preparing for lunch with Vanessa, Tallulah and
Eoin; we’re having lots of Moorish (and, we hope, more-ish) stuff, most
of which we cooked last night, but enough of which still remains…

More later, I hope.

More!

More! . . . More! . . . More!

This! . . . This! . . . This!

Akla! Duddle! Ly! (butterfly) Lucy! Lucy! Nonno! Dor! Appo! (apro) Giu! Ooks! (books) Hooraaay! Choo-choo! Lah! Lah! (yes; usually accompanied by furious nodding) Hellooo, Lucy! Hellooo, nonno! Hellooo, Dom! (Tom) Hellooo, this!

Moon! ‘Tar! (star)

Duddle! (cuddle). Muh-hee! (monkey)
Gone! Down! Ut! (up)

Bye-bye!

Alex Hooper
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